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Break Free From Toxic Love Patterns

Whether you're ready to reclaim your power, rebuild your standards, or reign in the love you deserve, there's a place for you in this community.

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Learn To Trust Yourself Again

You've built a successful life, but when it comes to love, you're still operating from survival mode. Join a community of high-achieving women who are breaking generational patterns, upgrading their boundaries, and choosing secure love that feels as good as it looks.

You're in the right place if:

♥︎ You're financially stable and ready to invest in your transformation

♥︎You’re tired of the same relationship patterns showing up in different packages

♥︎ You want community support, not just individual coaching

♥︎ You're ready to stop surviving love and start thriving in it

Join a community of women who are reclaiming their confidence in love and relationships.

Level 01:

RECLAIM

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From survival patterns to choosing yourself first

Who this is for: You've survived toxic relationships and built stability, but you still struggle with self-trust and making decisions from fear instead of peace. You're successful in other areas but when it comes to love, you feel stuck in old patterns.

Your transformation: Break free from emotional self-bondage, establish true internal safety, and learn what choosing yourself actually looks like in daily life. You'll move from surviving your past to reclaiming your power to choose differently.

What you'll master:

  • Recognizing emotional triggers before they control your choices

  • Building boundaries that feel loving, not punishing

  • Releasing shame around past relationship decisions

  • Daily practices that keep you grounded in your worth

  • Making decisions from peace, not fear

Goal: Reclaim your power to choose yourself first in every situation, creating the foundation for all future relationship success.

What's included: Monthly group coaching calls, private community access with women at your level, Reset workbook and daily grounding tools & other healing resources.

Investment: 9 months for $3,997 ($445/month) or 12 months for $4,997 ($415/month)

Level 02:

REBUILD

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From blurred boundaries to upgraded standards

Who this is for: You've reclaimed your power and established safety, but you're ready to uplevel everything—your boundaries, your standards, and your entire approach to relationships. You know your worth but need to learn how to communicate it clearly.

Your transformation: Master boundaries that feel loving instead of harsh, rewrite your relationship blueprint based on what you actually deserve, and rebuild your identity around your authentic values and gifts, not past pain.

What you'll master:

  • Setting boundaries that invite respect, not create walls

  • Redefining what love and partnership mean for your life now

  • Healing old wounds without letting them define your future

  • Communicating your standards with confidence and grace

  • Creating self-care practices that honor your worth

Goal: Rebuild your entire relationship approach based on who you are now, not who you were when you were surviving.

What's included: Everything from Reclaim Level plus monthly one-on-one coaching sessions, access to exclusive workshops and masterclasses, deeper healing exercises and identity restoration work.

Investment: 9 months for $5,997 ($665/month) or 12 months for $7,497 ($625/month)

Level 03:

REIGN

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From surviving love to thriving in it

Who this is for: You've rebuilt your foundation and uplevel your standards, and now you're ready to thrive in secure love while building your legacy. You want to model what's possible for other women and create lasting impact beyond yourself.

Your transformation: Master the art of thriving in healthy relationships, align your gifts with your purpose, and step into leadership that creates ripple effects of healing in your community. You'll become the woman other women look to as proof that secure, joyful love is possible.

What you'll master:

  • Navigating healthy relationships with confidence and ease

  • Communicating in ways that deepen intimacy and respect

  • Building financial freedom that supports your dreams

  • Mentoring other women through their own transformations

  • Creating a legacy that extends beyond your own healing

Goal: Reign in love and life with the confidence of a woman who knows her worth, while lifting other women to do the same.

What's included: Everything from previous levels plus bi-weekly one-on-one coaching sessions, VIP retreat access, expert guest sessions on finance and leadership, legacy-building planning, and mentoring opportunities within the community.

Investment: 9 months for $8,997 ($1k/month) or 12 months for $10,997 ($915/month)

How We Transform Together

Community

You're not doing this alone anymore. Every level includes group coaching calls where you get real-time support, practical tools, and the accountability that only comes from women who refuse to settle for less.

Real Tools

This isn’t theory. You get frameworks for decision-making, scripts for boundary-setting, and strategies that work in real relationships with real people.

Self-Paced

You start at the level that matches where you are right now. Some women move through all three levels, others find their home in one. It’s support without pressure.

Connection

Your community ends the isolation that can accompany a healing journey. You're part of a power-pack of women who are committed to choosing themselves first.

Why I Created This Community

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After 27 years of one-on-one work with women, I realized that healing happens faster in community. When you see other strong women choosing themselves first, it gives you permission to do the same.

I've transformed over 300 women's relationships with love, and the ones who thrived the most were the ones who had sisterhood support along the way.

My credentials: Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Life Coach, 25+ years specializing in women's transformation work.

My promise: You'll never feel judged here. Only supported, challenged when you need it, and celebrated every step of the way.

What People Are Saying

“LaToiya is so real. She’s warm, caring, but real as h***. A positive environment for all types of people regardless of the sensitive, sometimes painful subject matter, that is dealt with. You deal with the hard stuff, but then socialize together, build each other up and become friends. Amazing experience.”

— ASHLEY

“LaToyia taught me communication skills and how to better handle toxic or high-conflict situations. She helped me sharpen tools I already had — and gave me new ones that made me stronger, wiser, and more grounded. Thank you for believing in me when everything felt uncertain. Your work matters — and you make a lasting impact on lives, including mine.”

— LAUREN

“I highly recommend LaToyia to anyone who is looking to better themselves and their future. She has made me become a better version of myself when I didn’t have any faith in myself and my situation. She makes sure that you feel supported and helps you navigate through the obstacles that you’re facing. She helps you grow to have a better future. Ms. Latoyia is WONDERFUL!!”

— JOCELYN

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • During your engagement assessment, we'll discuss where you are in your healing journey and where you want to go. Most women intuitively know which level feels right, but I'm here to guide you if you're unsure.

  • Absolutely. You can upgrade to the next level at any time as you're ready for deeper work. Many women progress through all three levels over time.

  • Plan for 2-3 hours per week including group calls, community engagement, and personal work. This is designed to fit into your busy professional schedule.

  • All calls are recorded and available in your member portal. You can also submit questions ahead of time to be addressed during the session.

  • Yes, we offer payment plans for all levels. Details will be discussed during your application call based on your specific situation.

  • This is coaching focused on moving forward and creating new patterns, not processing past trauma. If you need therapeutic support, I can provide referrals.

  • I generally do not offer discounts. However, every situation is different and we can talk about it individually.

Your Next Step

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HEY BEAUTIFUL

You've read this far because something inside you knows it's time. You're tired of the same patterns, ready for secure love, and you want to do this work alongside women who understand your journey.

I have three ways we can work together through my community programs: Reclaim (learning to choose yourself first), Rebuild (upgrading your boundaries and standards), and Reign (thriving in secure love while building your legacy).

During your clarity call, we'll talk through where you are and where you want to go. I'll help you determine which level is your best starting point, and you'll get a feel for whether this community is the right fit for your transformation.

You don't have to figure this out alone anymore. Your community of strong women is waiting.

Ready to stop surviving love and start thriving in it? Let's talk.