You’ve survived love. Now it’s time to thrive in it.
Winning at LOVE begins from within
You've built a successful career, you’re raising up your kids, and created stability after surviving relationships that nearly broke you. You're financially independent and stronger than you've ever been.
So why are you still accepting love that feels like work? You're not broken. You don't need another self-help book or therapy session to "fix" yourself.
You need a trauma-informed coach (who has been there herself) to walk alongside you and give you the support and accountability to stop settling for love that drains you and start choosing love that actually fills you up.
You deserve both safety and love.
Safety and love is your birthright, and you deserve a secure partner who treats you like the queen you are. But you avoid meaningful relationships because the fear of choosing wrong again feels bigger than the loneliness.
Deep down, you keep asking yourself: "Am I enough to attract a secure man?"
The answer is absolutely YES YOU ARE! But until you fall madly in love with yourself, you'll keep being misaligned in love.
You're tired of the same patterns showing up in different relationships…
You meet someone who seems different, but three months in, you're dealing with the same emotional instability. The same need to prove your worth.
You've done the therapy. You've read the books. You know your triggers. Those toxic patterns begin to emerge and just like that…you’re single again.
And yet deep in your heart…you’re still a hopeful romantic.
But you're so afraid of repeating the cycle that you've withdrawn from love altogether. You pour everything into your work and giving your kids the life they deserve, but when it comes to your own heart, you've built walls.
I’m La Toyia the Love Coach
HEY BEAUTIFUL!
I've been doing trauma-informed transformational work for 27 years—this has been my life's work. I've walked alongside over 300 women as they've moved from crisis to healing to thriving, and I've seen what actually works.
I've been where you are. I know what it feels like to be strong in every area of your life except love. I know what it's like to keep choosing toxic and wonder if something is fundamentally wrong with you.
I've done the work to get to the other side. I've learned to choose myself first, set boundaries that feel loving, and called in love that's both secure and fun.
Now I teach other women how to go from surviving love to thriving in it.
“A healed woman moves differently. She leads with grace, quiet strength and clarity of purpose.”
LaToyia Conway Hampton | Trauma-Informed Love Coach
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Real Talk
Transformation Begins With Being Coachable
STEP 1: Being open to change is the first step in working with me. We’ll hop on a quick clarity call to make sure this is the right path for you.
STEP 2: You start where you are, progress at your own pace, and always have my guidance and the support of the women who are walking this path with you.
You get group coaching, community support, practical tools, real strategies, and the kind of accountability that only comes from women who refuse to settle for less than they deserve.
Reign In Love
This isn’t counseling or therapy. It’s a trauma-informed transformational coaching program that helps you move beyond surviving—to thriving.
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LEVEL 1: From survival patterns to choosing yourself first
You're ready to break the emotional self-bondage that's kept you accepting less than you deserve. This level is about establishing safety, learning what choosing yourself actually looks like, and building the foundation for everything that comes next. You'll reclaim your power to make decisions from peace, not fear. -
LEVEL 2: From blurred boundaries to upgraded standards
You've reclaimed your power and now you're ready to upgrade everything—your boundaries, your standards, your entire relationship blueprint. This level is about mastering boundaries that feel loving, rewriting your love story, and rebuilding based on what you actually deserve. -
LEVEL 3: From surviving love to thriving in it
You're ready to call in and maintain healthy love while building your legacy. This level is about thriving in secure relationships, living with purpose, and showing other women what's possible when you know your worth.
Over 300 women have trusted me with their stories, their hearts, and their deepest wounds.
Watching them go from surviving love to thriving in it fulfills my highest purpose and deepest calling. Every woman who learns to choose herself first creates a ripple effect that changes generations.
“LaToyia taught me communication skills and how to better handle toxic or high-conflict situations. She helped me sharpen tools I already had — and gave me new ones that made me stronger, wiser, and more grounded. Thank you for believing in me when everything felt uncertain. Your work matters — and you make a lasting impact on lives, including mine.”
— LAUREN“I highly recommend LaToyia to anyone who is looking to better themselves and their future. She has made me become a better version of myself when I didn’t have any faith in myself and my situation. She makes sure that you feel supported and helps you navigate through the obstacles that you’re facing. She helps you grow to have a better future. Ms. Latoyia is WONDERFUL!!”
— JOCELYN“LaToiya is so real. She’s warm, caring, but real as h***. A positive environment for all types of people regardless of the sensitive, sometimes painful subject matter, that is dealt with. You deal with the hard stuff, but then socialize together, build each other up and become friends. Amazing experience.”
— ASHLEY
“Secure love doesn't have to be boring, and fun love doesn't have to be toxic.”
-LaToyia Conway Hampton
Your Next Step
Let's talk!
You've read this far because something inside you knows it's time. You're tired of the same patterns, ready for secure love, and you want to do this work alongside women who understand your journey.
During your clarity call, we'll talk through where you are and where you want to go. I'll help you determine which level is your best starting point, and you'll get a feel for whether this community is the right fit for your transformation.
You don't have to figure this out alone anymore. Your community of strong women is waiting.
Ready to stop surviving love and start thriving in it? Let's talk.